Self care vs Selfish.

The thing about only thinking of yourself, is that it blinds you to the fact of how your actions will affect the people around you. There’s nothing wrong with thinking of yourself, however, there’s something terribly wrong when you think of only yourself. Selfishness has a way of making us believe that only our feelings…

Your mistakes aren’t in vain. God doesn’t waste anything!

Have you ever done something based off how you were feeling at the time? It probably felt good at the time, but looking back, you’re like, what in the hell was I thinking? The truth is, you wasn’t, or at least not logically. All you could hear at the time was your feelings, and that’s…

The blame game and comfortably struggling.

I might step on some toes, but here goes… Sometimes it’s not the enemy… it’s you, but blaming the enemy keeps YOU from being accountable for your actions, and it keeps YOU comfortable in your mess. Now, that mess could mean anything. It could be YOUR own ways, a lack of faith, living with a…

Our choices determines our course.

One way that God has shown His love for us, is by giving us the gift of free will. While it may sometimes feel like a blessing and a curse, we cannot deny the fact that free will is an act of love. It is a blessing to have a choice of what we want…

A prayer for spiritual direction.

If you’re struggling with which way to go in your career, in love, or in life in general, this prayer will help you find peace and grace and the wisdom to move forward in faith by knowing that the Lord is our Shepherd. This prayer is also available on my podcast, you can access it…

Understanding clears the elephant in the room.

Ever been in a relationship where the vibe was typically good, and one bad thing happened and it changed everything or at least it changed your perspective? Whether it was a good working relationship with you and a business partner, a personal relationship, a relationship between you and a family member or whatever the case…

Tonight’s scriptural meditation.

Proverbs 3:5-6,23-26 5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. 23 Then you will go on your way in safety, and your foot will not stumble. 24 When you lie down, you…

Manifesting your heart’s desires: The power of saying and doing.

Are your actions matching your desires? It’s not enough to want something, if you don’t work towards it. “Faith without works is dead (James 2:17).” Read that again. Whether your desire is to become successful in your career field, get fit, start your own business, find true love, or whatever the desires of your heart…

Wisdom to understand.

I’ve learned that the best way to understand someone is to empathize with them, and the best way to empathize with them is to get out of your feelings and become selfless. You can’t understand anyone completely if all you hear is yourself. Your thoughts, opinions, and feelings are your perceptions of yourself and the…

Wisdom is your friend.

God allows us to go through so that we learn the lesson and attain wisdom. That wisdom should be applied to future situations. Don’t ignore wisdom, it will save you from many mistakes and consequences you may not be prepared for. Listening to your feelings may feel good for a moment but it also causes…