Know your worth and stick to it.

Once they know that they can get away with degrading you, they will lose all respect for you. They won’t see you as loyal, they’ll see you as stupid! You can do better. Love yourself. Set boundaries and standards and stick to them. You don’t have to comprise your standards, morals, and respect, for someone…

Evening encouragement.

You don’t need the validation of people. If they don’t accept you, oh well. Don’t allow rejection or people’s opinions of you, to erase the love you have for yourself. Remember, you are made in God’s image. You are loved by the Creator of the Universe! He designed you with purpose! You are enough! Don’t…

Recover before you replace.

It’s important to take time to heal after a breakup because during this time you’re vulnerable in ways that can cause you to listen to your feelings. After a breakup, your vision is cloudy because you’re emotionally damaged, mentally frustrated and confused, and often stressed out. These things can cause you to see what you…

Adjust your crown.

When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Do you compare and complain about certain areas of your body not meeting the world’s standards? Do you criticize yourself more than you celebrate the person you are? What do you really think about yourself? Do you truly accept yourself, or do you only accept…

Monday morning coffee: Level up your faith.

You don’t have to receive anything in your spirit that causes you to have a victim’s mentality. Stop accepting lies about yourself when God has given you power to overcome everything this world throws at you. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and telling people the worse about yourself and throwing these pity parties in hopes…

The problem with “dating up” and “dating down”.

Okay, so let me just say this. I believe that we’ve all done this, at one point or another in our lives, and we’ve all had our own reasons; mostly selfish, but we’ll get to that later. Be honest, you’ve either dated someone who was “out of your league” or you’ve dated someone who wasn’t…

The value in you.

How do you see yourself? When you look in the mirror what do you see? Do you see beauty? Do you see brains? Do you see a nice body? Do you see someone who’s happy, loving, kind? What is it that you see? Do you see someone with a nice bank account? Someone with major…