Heal first. Love is freedom, not control.

Some people try to “control” their current relationship because they were hurt in the past and that pain left them feeling powerless. So, they build walls, become uncompromising, manipulative or even run, in order to protect themselves from being hurt again; but truth is, they’ve never healed. They are hurting themselves by dwelling on the…

It’s not love it’s bondage.

It’s deeper than feelings, sometimes it’s bondage and you’ve confused it with love. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Isn’t that crazy? How can bondage feel like love? Sin is tricky that way, but it always ends in disaster if you don’t put an end to it. I’m no expert in relationships but I believe experience is the best teacher,…

Don’t mess this up.

From time to time, my kids recall a lesson they all learned when they were in elementary. I’d made plans to surprise them with dinner and afterwards I’d planned to take them to this place they loved, this place has the very best, shaved ice ever! My kids and I loved this place, when we…