MaRriAgE iS jUsT a piEcE oF pApeR: A piece of paper worth fighting for.

I’m so tired of some people saying, “MaRriAgE iS jUsT a piEcE oF pApeR,” as a means to excuse a dead end relationship. They say, “marriage doesn’t keep a person faithful,” well guess what? Neither does staying in a relationship with someone for years, decades, or your entire life, who hasn’t made a commitment to…

Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes teamwork.

Appreciate what you have when it comes to love. I’m talking about real love. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Compliment each other’s character. If you feel like there’s 75% of great things you love about your spouse, but 25% you can do without; don’t go out looking for someone to fulfill that 25%. You should…

Don’t be anxious, be prayerful when dating.

Don’t be so quick to jump into a relationship because you’re tired of being alone, or you’re bored or horny… 😒 Listen, the sad reality is, people are too anxious to have somebody, when they haven’t even discovered themselves. We have to really put our feelings to the side folks, and think about what’s driving our…

There’s nothing wrong with being single.

Long time ago many women’s validation for their life came from their husband and how many kids they could push out, but today’s a new day, thank God. A woman doesn’t need to be married to know who she is, and a man doesn’t need to be married to know who he is. Unfortunately our…

Confession time.

Okay, so a moment of transparency… I’m good by myself, but doggoneit, 🗣🗣🗣I WANT A FREAKING HUSBAND! Every now and then I’ll ask God, “God, where is my husband?‼️” I know that my future hubby is out there somewhere, asking God, “Lord, where is my wife?” Lol I have hope, but dear Jesus, 😫“WHY IS…

The single stench.

Single people carry a certain stench. Oh, you didn’t know? You better ask somebody. Or start to pay attention to the facial expressions of your married family members or friends when you come around. I’ve noticed an elephant in the room… and it’s time to air it out. There’s this stigma mostly adopted by older…

One for the reason of love

Until you heal from the pain of your past, you will go through life hurting everyone who loves you, including yourself. Moving on is not the same as being healed. Forgive others, forgive yourself and take time to heal.  One for the reason of Love, book coming soon to Amazon, Kindle and your favorite book…

Ruth and Boaz.

The book of Ruth shows us first hand how being faithful over a few can make us rulers over many. Ruth was faithful to her mother n law Naomi even after losing her husband. When Naomi begin her journey back to Judah, Ruth was determined to go with her even when Naomi protested. Ruth left…

I’m going for mine!

Confidence my dear friends… Confidence 😊.  Oh that’s all there is to it? Why thank you! I’ll remember to have confidence on the day that I attend a Nelly concert and declare to him that he was made for me after I squeeze my way through the other hundred thousand of screaming women declaring the…

Not right now…

Ever feel like the above picture? Trying to juggle life can be both exciting and stressful at times. We’re trying to study for final exams on only an hour of sleep because we work a full time job not to mention Jr. just went to sleep at 5am the same time the alarm went off…