Time to heal. ♥️

Sometimes the hurt runs deep. A person’s childhood has a huge impact on the way that person thinks and reacts to the world around them. Healing can be hurtful, but it’s possible. It’s hurtful because you have to face some things you’d rather ignore, but through Christ, you can conquer the pains of your past!…

People are the way they are for a reason.

Confession time… So people who are annoying for no reason irk me… 🤷🏾‍♀️ Believe it or not, I am an introvert! Heavy on the introvert! I love people, but I love my space reserved only for me as well. Anyway, God put some wisdom in my mind tonight. He said, a lot of people who…

Know who you are.

There are a lot of people looking to other people to tell them who they are… Listen, stop putting your trust in people and do some soul searching and seek God. If you don’t know who you are, then there are a lot of people who will play on your emotions and manipulate you. They…

Evening encouragement.

You don’t need the validation of people. If they don’t accept you, oh well. Don’t allow rejection or people’s opinions of you, to erase the love you have for yourself. Remember, you are made in God’s image. You are loved by the Creator of the Universe! He designed you with purpose! You are enough! Don’t…

Recover before you replace.

It’s important to take time to heal after a breakup because during this time you’re vulnerable in ways that can cause you to listen to your feelings. After a breakup, your vision is cloudy because you’re emotionally damaged, mentally frustrated and confused, and often stressed out. These things can cause you to see what you…

Best one night stand… EVER.

Story time… So, you really have to be careful when you’re feeling lonely, because you’re vulnerable during those times, and when you feel that sting of loneliness, you’ll do just about anything (in some cases anyone) if it fulfills that longing for companionship, because, who wants to be alone forever? No one! Anyway back to…

Fragile, handle with care: Dating an emotional wreck.

When you commit to someone who haven’t taken time to heal from their past, you are also committing to whatever demons they’re fighting. Give people time to heal from being emotionally abused and mentally mishandled before jumping into a relationship with them, because you don’t want to get into something you’re not ready for. If…

You’re not for everybody, and that’s okay!

You can’t help them heal if they refuse to let go. No matter how much of yourself that you give, to the wrong one, you will never be enough. You could have all the right qualities, and still not be the right person for that person or even some people. Learn to pour into individuals…

Don’t downplay my pain.

We’re all different. We experience situations differently. One person may go through something that they consider traumatic, while another person may go through something similar and consider it, “not that bad.” Although we all experience situations from different perspectives, different backgrounds, different ways, and at different times, it’s important to understand that we also experience…