Know your worth and stick to it.

Once they know that they can get away with degrading you, they will lose all respect for you. They won’t see you as loyal, they’ll see you as stupid! You can do better. Love yourself. Set boundaries and standards and stick to them. You don’t have to comprise your standards, morals, and respect, for someone…

The importance of following God and not people.

Some people love to use the parts of scripture that benefits them in a particular way, or they’ll try to use certain scripture as a form of manipulation so that others will co-sign what they’re doing. Nah… We can quote scripture all day. The enemy knows God’s Word. This is why it’s important to know…

Recover before you replace.

It’s important to take time to heal after a breakup because during this time you’re vulnerable in ways that can cause you to listen to your feelings. After a breakup, your vision is cloudy because you’re emotionally damaged, mentally frustrated and confused, and often stressed out. These things can cause you to see what you…

You are more than your flaws.

You know what? You’re pretty darn awesome! No, seriously! I want you to take a moment today, and look at yourself, but when you look at yourself, don’t focus on one area. Focus on everything, both your pretty and ugly because every detail of you is what makes you, you! Your character is not defined…

I believe in you!

Ya know… sometimes people just need someone to believe in them! With that being said, I BELIEVE IN YOU! Go for it! Remember, you can do anything you put your mind to! It’s great to have support and people who believe in you, but what’s even more important is that you believe in yourself, and…

Hard truth: The potential you see may never become their reality.

Your feelings will have you seeing potential in people that they don’t see in themselves, but that potential becomes a false expectation when what you see in that person becomes more of who you want them to become rather than who they truly are or want to be… People are who they are, right now….

Best one night stand… EVER.

Story time… So, you really have to be careful when you’re feeling lonely, because you’re vulnerable during those times, and when you feel that sting of loneliness, you’ll do just about anything (in some cases anyone) if it fulfills that longing for companionship, because, who wants to be alone forever? No one! Anyway back to…

Don’t start if you can’t finish.

Don’t start a new relationship if you’re not over your past relationship. If you aren’t emotionally available, don’t come into a person’s life and pretend to care when you know that you don’t plan to invest yourself in ways that can build a healthy, meaningful relationship between the two of you. It isn’t fair to…

Motivation for the new year!

Hey y’all! Happy New Year’s Eve, and I hope the very best for you in 2021. Listen, quick message for you before going into the New Year. Stop living for people’s approval and just do you. You can’t make people love you, accept you, support you, or be loyal to you! You have to believe…

Accepting the end and beginning again.

I hate that feeling when the both of you know it’s over between the two of you, and yet the two of you are still trying to work it out, but the vibe isn’t the same as it used to be… The two of you try so hard to make it work because you genuinely…