Know your worth and stick to it.

Once they know that they can get away with degrading you, they will lose all respect for you. They won’t see you as loyal, they’ll see you as stupid! You can do better. Love yourself. Set boundaries and standards and stick to them. You don’t have to comprise your standards, morals, and respect, for someone…

Hard truth: The potential you see may never become their reality.

Your feelings will have you seeing potential in people that they don’t see in themselves, but that potential becomes a false expectation when what you see in that person becomes more of who you want them to become rather than who they truly are or want to be… People are who they are, right now….

Best one night stand… EVER.

Story time… So, you really have to be careful when you’re feeling lonely, because you’re vulnerable during those times, and when you feel that sting of loneliness, you’ll do just about anything (in some cases anyone) if it fulfills that longing for companionship, because, who wants to be alone forever? No one! Anyway back to…

Don’t start if you can’t finish.

Don’t start a new relationship if you’re not over your past relationship. If you aren’t emotionally available, don’t come into a person’s life and pretend to care when you know that you don’t plan to invest yourself in ways that can build a healthy, meaningful relationship between the two of you. It isn’t fair to…

Accepting the end and beginning again.

I hate that feeling when the both of you know it’s over between the two of you, and yet the two of you are still trying to work it out, but the vibe isn’t the same as it used to be… The two of you try so hard to make it work because you genuinely…

Atlanta is too damn small… (Part 1)

There’s currently over half a million people who live in Atlanta, and it’s still too damn small… Everybody knows everybody, which means there’s a good chance you’re all sleeping with the same people… I just broke off an engagement to a guy who I’d been dating on and off for twelve years. Yes, twelve years….

The truth about our comfort zones.

So, yesterday around this time, I tried to upload a video on this matter, but it only uploaded my intro and I didn’t know until my oldest daughter sent me a message. So, here I am writing, doing what I do. Writing is my forte, public speaking… um… not so much so, but I do…

What Christmas means. (Part 3)

Hey loves, this is the finale of “What Christmas means. Here’s part 3 y’all, enjoy, and Merry Christmas! 🎄🎁  On Christmas Eve, the ladies met at Janita’s house for brunch. “Hey ladies, come on in,” Janita said, as she opened her front door. “Whew, it’s really cold out there,” Koreyn said. “I know, and snow is…

Close that chapter, it’s time for a new one.

Today is the day to put closure to those dead end relationships, situationships, and fake friendships! Stop waiting on an explanation, an apology, or for the person/people to get their minds right. Sometimes, the fact that they’ve said nothing, tells you everything you need to know. Pay attention to their actions. If they don’t care…

Fragile, handle with care: Dating an emotional wreck.

When you commit to someone who haven’t taken time to heal from their past, you are also committing to whatever demons they’re fighting. Give people time to heal from being emotionally abused and mentally mishandled before jumping into a relationship with them, because you don’t want to get into something you’re not ready for. If…