God allows us to go through so that we learn the lesson and attain wisdom. That wisdom should be applied to future situations. Don’t ignore wisdom, it will save you from many mistakes and consequences you may not be prepared for. Listening to your feelings may feel good for a moment but it also causes you to become complacent. While wisdom and sound judgment will lead you to your destiny. Be cautious about who  and what you’re listening to. The wrong thoughts and the wrong advice can lead you to a path of repeated mistakes and wasted time. So, when in doubt, go for what you know (based on God’s Word) and not for what you feel. Remember, wisdom is your friend. Her truth may hurt you sometimes, but it will keep you from self destruction. Proverbs 4:6-7 (NIV), “Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you. The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.”