Listen… a butthole will be a butthole regardless of what you do, or what you do to it… Let me explain. If a person has jacked up morals, or if a person’s damaged, then they will behave accordingly. It has very little or nothing to do with how good of a person you are or how good you are to them. If they’re a butthole, then they’re going to be with the 💩, regardless!
It just frustrates me when people make excuses for their disrespectful or someone else’s disrespectful or shady behavior. Being a good and decent human being shouldn’t have anything to do with the actions of other individuals or their actions towards you. Yes, they may make you feel a certain type of way, but you shouldn’t be giving them your power by responding negatively to negative energy. Neither should you take a person’s weaknesses and use them to your advantage, so that you can selfishly benefit from their suffering.
We need to treat people the way we want to be treated, because what goes around comes around, and if you’re out here looking out for yourself regardless of how it affects those around you, then please believe that eventually you’ll get a taste of your own medicine in some way. Luke 6:31, “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Galatians 6:7, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.”
If you’re a good person and you’ve been misused or abused in any way, please don’t allow those negative actions that people have committed towards you, to get inside of you. Don’t become like them, become better. Keep being the person you are but apply wisdom, knowledge and understanding to your life as well. These three things will help guide you in life. The Word of God says,
James 1:5 New International Version (NIV)
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.
Listen, it’s not your fault that you were good to someone who was bad to you. It’s not your fault that you were loyal to someone who was disloyal to you. It’s not your fault that you kept it one hundred with someone who kept it ten with you! Straight up! Learn from what you go through! Don’t become cold hearted, but do become wiser. The truth is, we can’t protect ourselves from being hurt, at some point (if you really desire love) you’re going to have to be vulnerable and run the risk of getting your heartbroken. If you try to protect your heart from being broken, you’ll never find love because you’re not fully applying yourself. Continue to produce the fruits of the Spirit and regardless of what you go through or what someone does to you, you’ll always come out a winner! Galatians 5:22-23, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 2 Corinthians 2:14 (GW), “But I thank God, who always leads us in victory because of Christ. Wherever we go, God uses us to make clear what it means to know Christ. It’s like a fragrance that fills the air.”
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Remember, you are not a victim, because Christ has made you victorious!