What’s the rush?

Why are we always rushing to get no where? While driving we rush to get in front of the people who’s cruising along only to be stopped at a red light beside the same car that we were single racing. At work we try to rush that report that’s due only to turn it in full of mistakes and why? So that we can rush home to catch our favorite show in time.πŸ™„ And lastly we love to rush, Literally…  Look at the current divorce rate. I hate to be rushed… Period. I know people that live their life rushing, not dating but in general. It works for them but I like to plan ahead and make sure that I have enough time to do whatever I need to do so that if something pops up to interfere with whatever I have going on, I will be prepared. It especially irks me when I barely know a guy and he asks “When are we going to chill?” I need for you to be more specific sir. Too many people definition of “chill” means sex. Ask Netflix about the word chill… πŸ€” What are you rushing for? We just met last week. No I’m not coming over to chill. I’m dating with purpose. With a strong emphasis on dating. Don’t ask me can you get to know me better if what you really mean is can you get to know my Vjay jay.😠 βœ‹πŸΎNo! I’m going to shut you down where you stand. So the first thing that I would like is for you to be very clear and specific when approaching me. If you want to get to know me better then ask me questions that will help you get a better understanding of who I am. Call me old fashioned but I also still believe in going on dates. You don’t have to spend a fortune. We can have a picnic at the park. I want to know where you stand in your relationship with God, how do you feel marriage, what are your career goals and do you want kids? I’m not looking for anything temporary. Flashing money doesn’t impress me and neither does how well you’re known in the city… I’m impressed with where your Faith lies and do you have the ability to lead your family in a positive and impactful direction. I don’t want a man that only wants to lay with me, I need a man who prays with me. There are other things that we can discuss but these are some of the main things that I am looking for. I’m middle aged for crying out loud! It’s definitely time to grow up. β°πŸ˜’ And by no means am I perfect but  I do want to be equally yoked. I know that some things in my life needs some fine tuning but I can give just as much as I want to receive. πŸ’•πŸ˜Š   In the meantime I am loving God, loving myself, my family and learning daily more and more about who I am. So for now I’m just cruising along and enjoying the ride letting the maniacs pass by. πŸš—πŸš•πŸš˜

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